The Unbusy Mom: Because you’re ambitious, you want to grow your business, and you still want a life.
You're ambitious. You want the money, the challenge, the launches, the strategy, the satisfaction of figuring out a hard problem and thinking, yep, I nailed that.So how did we end up here?Working all day and still not getting to the thing you actually wanted to do. Feeling pulled in a million directions. Putting your own projects off again. Being the CEO of your business and somehow also the COO of everybody else's life.‘Cause you can make the launch work. The kids' schedules work. The team work. The Sunday night work. The vacation-with-the-laptop work.You can make almost an...
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Real life vs. Human Design: Your Human Design wants more tabs open.
<p><b>What do you need to feel more secure about this?</b></p><p>That’s the question I want her asking when she feels stuck.</p><p>Because her brain is naturally going to look around the corner.</p>Do we have enough money?Do I have the right people?Do we actually have time for this?What happens if we add this to the week?<p>That “yes, but have you considered THIS?” thing isn't a problem to get rid of - it’s how she’s designed to make decisions.</p><p>And then we got into her w...
Inside the chart: Your Human Design has opinions about your desk.
<p><b>What if you're actually supposed to choose what you work on?</b></p><p>Not have every single priority decided three weeks in advance.</p><p>Not follow a perfectly pre-planned schedule.</p><p>Not force yourself to focus on one thing just because somebody told you that's how productive people work.</p><p>We got into this really interesting combination of wanting freedom to choose what feels like the right thing to work on... while still wanting step-by-step plans for how to actually do it.</p><p>So yes, there's structure - just maybe not the kind...
Real life vs. Human Design: Your Human Design needs a dog walker.
<p><b>Someone told her to focus on ONE thing.</b></p><p>Which was probably terrible advice. 😂</p><p>Because she's a Manifesting Generator. She's meant to have a normal work day and a bunch of different things that actually light her up.</p><p>So we got into what happens when you've got a brain that wants lots of things going on... and you're trying to force yourself to focus on one thing because that's what you're “supposed” to do.</p><p>And then the real-life problem underneath all of it?</p><p>The puppy.</p><p>Yep. 😂</p><p><b>Co...
Inside the chart: Your Human Design can't take a nap for you.
<p><b>She needed to work less</b> - which sounds obvious when you're talking about a Projector.</p><p>Except she also needs to delegate a LOT to make that actually possible.</p><p>And then we got REALLY specific about her work style. ‘Cause she wants structure. <br/><br/>Same place, same time. Pre-chosen tasks at specific times.</p><p>But once she's inside the project? She wants to just see what her brain pulls out as the next step.</p><p>Very structured about when she works - very flexible about what happens next.</p><p><b>Com...
The Real Problem with Your Balance… Isn't Your Business
<p>What if you're actually really good at business?</p><p>Like, you could solve the team problem. Figure out the webinar. Fix the conversion issue. Have the hard conversation.</p><p>….IF somebody would just give you the problems one at a time.</p><p>Because that's the real issue.</p><p>It's not that you don't know how to solve business problems. <br/><br/>It's that you've got three things needing you at once, notifications going off everywhere, a kid getting sick, the dog barking, and absolutely ZERO margin to think.</p><p>So every new problem feels lik...
Real life vs. human design: She was trying to fit her business around her kids
<p>What if you aren't supposed to work all day? </p><p>Seriously. 😂</p><p>Because we spend SO much time trying to make ourselves be consistent like little productivity machines.</p><p>But what if that's actually the problem??</p><p>This reading got into what happens when you STOP trying to force yourself into somebody else's version of a “normal” workday.</p><p><b>Same coaching question - completely different answer once we put her Human Design underneath it.</b></p><p><b>Come listen to this one →</b></p><p>If you're an entrepreneur and a mom trying to...
Inside the chart: What if you need structure AND freedom?
<p>Okay, this one was interesting. Because she clearly needed some structure.</p><p>But the more we talked about how she actually works, the more I started seeing… the problem is the KIND of structure she's been trying to create.</p><p>You know that thing where you make a beautiful plan and then immediately want to do something completely different?</p><p>Yeah. We talked about that. 😂</p><p><b>This is what happens when you take a coaching question and run it through the actual person asking it. </b></p><p><b>Come listen to me pick this a...
Real life vs. human design: Your toddler doesn't care about your work block
<p>What if you don't actually need more time?</p><p>Because this woman had a pretty specific question about how to fit everything in. And I kept thinking….</p><p>Do we actually NEED to fit all this in??</p><p>Or, should we look at how she's USING her energy in the first place??</p><p>This one got into work, rest, capacity, and why “just use the time better” isn't always the answer.</p><p><b>Because the advice I'd give one woman isn't necessarily the advice I'd give another woman with the exact same problem - and th...
Inside the chart: What if your schedule changes every 24 hours?
<p>Some people's weeks are predictable.</p><p>Some people's weeks are…. Yeah.</p><p>This one is for the woman who makes a plan on Sunday, and by Tuesday morning it's basically historical fiction. 😂</p><p>So what do YOU actually need when your schedule refuses to behave??</p><p>That's what we got into.</p><p><b>We took the original coaching question, added her Human Design, and suddenly the answer got a LOT more specific.</b></p><p><b>Listen to this one →</b></p><p>If your schedule changes constantly, traditional time management advice can start to feel...
Real life vs. human design: She kept circling her top 3… and stalling out
<p>She knew what her top three were.</p><p>She had the list. She'd circled the things. Matter of fact, she'd stared at them WAY too long.</p><p>And somehow… she was still stuck.</p><p>So I started asking a few different questions.</p><p>Because when you've already tried the obvious productivity advice and you're STILL sitting there thinking, “Okay, but what the heck do I actually do??”...</p><p>I want to know what's underneath that. 😂</p><p><b>That's where these HD redos get fun. Same question - different woman - very different conversation.</b></p><p>...
