Old Money
If you weren’t born with a trust fund—but feel like you should have been—you’re in the right place. Old Money is the podcast for ambitious women building the wealth, lifestyle, and legacy they wish they were born into. Hosted by entrepreneur and brand strategist Amber Frankhuizen, this show is a bold, relatable take on money mindset, personal development, and financial freedom. Each week, Amber breaks down the tactical side of money—like saving, investing, and scaling your income—alongside the emotional and energetic work of becoming the kind of woman who feels truly wealthy. While we don’t have a...
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148. Amber has Entered the Chat: A Few Purchases & Several Opinions, Everything I've Been Dying to Tell You!
<p>Rich Girls, I've missed you!</p><p>It's been a few months since we've caught up, and with the three-year anniversary of Old Money right around the corner, (what?!!?) it felt like the perfect excuse for a little summer check-in. Consider this my Notes from the Summer Estate *clinks glass of sancerre.* </p><p>Today I'm sharing what life has looked like lately- from settling into San Francisco and the routines I'm falling into, to the purchases that have genuinely been worth every dollar. I've also been a little behind on my monthly favorites, so we're catching up on...
147. The Luxury of Leaving: Old Money Is Out of Office (Why I'm Pausing the Podcast!)
<p>Okay, rich girls, I have news. My business is thriving, the podcast is popping, we just moved from San Diego to San Francisco, and I am...tapping out for a bit. Not because something's wrong. Everything is actually going really well.</p><p></p><p>So why am I making a change? I'm pulling back the curtain on a personal ritual that revealed something I couldn't ignore, and the decision I made because of it that flies in the face of every conventional success rule out there. The old me (dysregulated, scared, buried in arbitrary rules) couldn't have done...
146. Why the Wealthy Are So Relaxed About Money (And What They Know that You Don't)
<p>Old Money Mindset ← Use code WEALTHCODES100 for $100 off until May 3, 2026!</p><p>What does it actually feel like to be on the other side of money stress?</p><p>Picture this: sun on your skin, a glass of champagne in hand, somewhere on the water with nowhere to rush off to. You’re not thinking about your bank balance. You’re not running numbers in the background. You’re just… there. Present. Relaxed. Unbothered. Certain that everything is handled.</p><p>Most people assume that feeling is reserved for someone with an overflowing net worth.</p><p>It’s not.</p><p>B...
145. Old Money Mindset Q&A: Your Questions, Answered Honestly
<p>Old Money Mindset ← JOIN NOW To Receive The Early Bird Discount And Bonuses!</p><p>In this bonus Q&A episode, I answer the most common questions listeners have been asking about money mindset, why you're always fighting with your partner, financial anxiety, and why traditional financial advice often doesn’t stick. </p><p>You’ll hear exactly how Old Money Mindset works, who it’s for (and who it’s not for), and why this approach focuses on nervous system regulation instead of just changing beliefs. I'm covering:</p>What if you’ve tried mindset work before and nothing chan...
144. Why Calm Women Win (The Soft Power Strategy Behind Wealth)
<p>Old Money Mindset ← JOIN NOW To Receive The Early Bird Discount And Bonuses!</p><p></p><p>Calm isn’t a personality type. It’s the reason some women build wealth faster, make better decisions, and never seem rushed - even when everything is on the line. In this episode, I explain how being reactive is quietly costing you money in your business, investments, and daily decisions, and why the women building real wealth are the most regulated, not the busiest. If you’ve been stuck in overthinking, urgency, or constant decision fatigue, this will show you how to move dif...
143. Performing Wealth vs. Actually Building It: The Difference Between Looking Rich and Being Rich
<p>Old Money Mindset ← Join The Waitlist Now To Receive A Special Early Bird Discount And Bonuses!</p><p>There’s a difference between looking rich and actually being wealthy... and most people are living in the gap.</p><p>In this episode, we break down:</p>Why performing wealth is so easy to fall into (and why it backfires)The Real Housewives situation and what it reveals about financial avoidanceWhy having millions of followers doesn’t equal financial securityThe psychology behind spending to signal vs. spending from stabilityWhat real, grounded wealth actually looks like behind the scenes<br/><p>If you...
142. Why Smart Women Make Bad Money Decisions (And How to Fix It)
<p>Old Money Mindset ← Join The Waitlist Now To Receive A Special Early Bird Discount And Bonuses!</p><p>Let’s talk about financial fight or flight: the reason you can be smart, successful, and still make questionable money decisions. In this episode, I break down how everyday triggers like bills, pricing, or your bank balance can send your nervous system into chaos, leading to overspending, avoidance, or undercharging…followed by guilt, obviously. I also share the patterns I see all the time (and have 100% done myself), plus a behind the scenes moment in my business that completely changed how I thin...
141. Cultura & Cash: First-Gen Family Pressure & Financial Power with Giovanna Gonzalez
<p>Download the FREE CHAPTER from the Old Money Mindset Workbook: Money Story Mapping</p><p>For many first generation women, money is deeply tied to family, culture, and expectation. Being the one who understands credit, earns more, or “makes it” can quietly turn into becoming the family safety net.</p><p>In this episode, I talk with Giovanna “Gigi” Gonzalez, author of Cultura & Cash, about the pressure of being a first generation daughter, the guilt that can come with setting financial boundaries, and how to build stability without losing connection to family or cultural identity. If you’re feeling torn betwe...
140. The Inheritance You Didn't Know You Received
<p>Download the FREE CHAPTER from the Old Money Mindset Workbook: Money Story Mapping</p><p>Your family may not have handed you a trust fund... but they handed you something that's been shaping your relationship with money ever since.</p><p>Before anyone ever sat you down and explained money, money was already teaching you. Every family passes down a financial inheritance that has nothing to do with bank accounts — it's the stories, the silences, the arguments, the phrases you heard so many times they became beliefs. 'We can't afford that.' 'Money doesn't grow on trees.' 'Rich pe...
139. Why Stressed Women Stay Broke (Even When They're Making Good Money)
<p>What if your worsening eyesight, your need for scalding showers, and your 3am wake-ups are all signs of nervous system dysregulation... and you've been treating them like personality quirks?</p><p>In this episode, I break down the signs of nervous system dysregulation that high-performing women have completely normalized, and explain exactly why this matters for your money, your wealth, and your life.</p><p>This is not a wellness episode. It's a wealth episode. Because you cannot make your best financial decisions from a nervous system that is in survival mode; and most high-achieving women are running a...
